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Old 04-04-2007, 07:42 PM Malmhead is offline  
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She needs more help than you can give her. She's obviously addicted to prescription drugs and is an alcoholic.

Seems like because you lost your virginity with her you're become attached because you experienced something new with a girl and it's accessible now.

Stand back, look at this 'relationship', and ask yourself what are you getting out of it

edit: Personally, you have a lot more to get out of life than this situation seeing as you'll be graduating soon.

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lots of views no replies?
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Old 04-05-2007, 11:47 AM Malmhead is offline  
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She needs more help than you can give her. She's obviously addicted to prescription drugs and is an alcoholic.

Seems like because you lost your virginity with her you're become attached because you experienced something new with a girl and it's accessible now.

Stand back, look at this 'relationship', and ask yourself what are you getting out of it

edit: Personally, you have a lot more to get out of life than this situation seeing as you'll be graduating soon.

I'm going to have to agree.

Your perception might be a tad distorted given the emotional / physical attachment, are you sure this what you want? Are you happy?
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she has a lot of problems (drugs, alcohol, etc.) which could easily resurface. comparatively you have significantly less. I would leave her.
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Old 04-05-2007, 11:57 AM Hoon is offline  
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You're 22, about to graduate, and you have nothing but a bright future ahead of you.

You are dating a piece of trash addict with a kid who is 26 and lives with her parents.

Oh thats a great match up.

Find someone better, she can only drag you down. It's unfortunate that she was your first, but such is life. After you've had a 2nd, 3rd, 4th and 5th you'll realize that you really dodged a bullet by getting her out of your life
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She needs more help than you can give her. She's obviously addicted to prescription drugs and is an alcoholic.

Seems like because you lost your virginity with her you're become attached because you experienced something new with a girl and it's accessible now.

Stand back, look at this 'relationship', and ask yourself what are you getting out of it

edit: Personally, you have a lot more to get out of life than this situation seeing as you'll be graduating soon.


I have to agree with this 100%. This girl isn't good for you, and you know it, or you wouldn't be making this thread. She has too much baggage, and I think you're acting as her pity whore right now. Drop her.
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Upside to girl:
You get sex, no risk of pregnancy.

Downside:
Multiple substance abuser
Single mom
Baby daddy drama
Hep C
Needs you to drive her around for some reason?

Even the "no risk of pregnancy" isn't pure win. You're 22, how do you know you won't want kids later on?


You're either going to drop her, or be playing Mr Support Machine for a very long time. People like her don't just heal in any reasonable amount of time. Even if (and that's a huge if) she gets over the drugs and alcohol abuse, the underlying issues that drove her to abuse are still going to be around.

Also, if you find yourself at the point in the relationship where you need a "break", the relationship is fucked. The issues are bigger than you ought to bother to deal with. Trying to move mountains to save the relationship when you're young and have lots of options is just dumb. Get out, find a less damaged girl, and live your life without having to be an abuse councillor.
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There are lots of views and few replies because it's hard to tell someone to leave a woman with a kid.

But that's the general opinion, son.
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Old 04-05-2007, 06:16 PM undertakr is offline  
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leave dude. that xanax + alcohol thing means she is gonna be dead one of these nights. guess who gets to take care of the kid?
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Old 04-05-2007, 06:56 PM DigitalChaos is offline  
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Check please...

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She needs her 'tubes blown' before she can get pregnant again because her mother did? Sure...

Have you thought about baby names?
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Old 04-06-2007, 04:48 AM vinnie is offline  
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Perspective on this situation?

You're an idiot for staying around, in my opinion.

No good will come from this, none.
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She shouldn't be drinking if shes a recovering heroin addict. She's giving you an out, take it.
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