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Im normally pretty transparent when it comes to picking up signs from girls.

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I moved away from home to go to college and in one of my classes I have some extremely good looking girls (I enjoy going to that class now) and I sit in front of this really cool chick from New York and we really hit it off last time and pretty much shot the shit for 4 hours while painting (color theory). She also just moved down here to start a new life (she originally came here for vacation but liked it so much that she stayed and enrolled at school). I had a really good (girl)friend at home that I talked to a lot and she reminds me of her. Shes just one of the girls you can say anything to and shes really quick on her feet. She kept asking me all sorts of personal questions and kept asking me where I was from and why I came and this and that, and I was joking with her half the time and asked her why she came and she said 'witness protection program', so from then on we were constantly joking and talking. I noticed a couple things that could be interpreted as flirting. She asked if I had a girlfriend. I dont. Were both from the New York area and she joked saying we could both road trip down and visit our families. I pointed out to her someone I thought was also hot in the class (a Ukraine girl, mid 20's, gorgeous) and she seemed to kind of take offense to it, she said something along the lines of "I don't normally care what I look like when I have to wake up early for school since I have to rush out of bed and get to class, but I can get all dolled up if I want to" I kinda felt bad so I told her that she is naturally beautiful and that I'd rather sit and talk with her than anyone else, and she replied with 'awwe, youre complimenting me". Then class pretty much ended, she had to rush off to go to a lab and print out some papers and do an online test or something or another so I didn't really have a chance to talk to her. Friday is coming up and I'm just wondering if I should somehow try to pursue it romantically (This girl is beautiful, and her personality just makes it) but then again I think back to my (girl)friend back home who is exactly like her and we were pretty much best friends. Maybe Ill just ask her to a movie, spiderman 3 is coming soon and id rather see it on a date with a girl rather than one of my male roomates. bleh


Cliffs:
1.Color theory class filled with good looking girls
2.Great looking girl sits behind me, I turn around and start talking and we hit it off (shes 24, Ill be 23 in August)
3.I have a great time talking to her, shes witty and smart (my kind of girl!)
4.Couple things were said making me think its flirting
4.1 asks if i have a girlfriend
4.2 both from same state, she mentioned we can road trip and visit both our families
4.3 I mentioned someone I thought was hot in class, she said she can get prettied up if she really wants to, I tell her shes naturally beautiful. she gets happy
5 Continue talking for like 2 hours
6 Class is over she leaves in a rush to prepare for next class, didn't have time to talk to her
7 Not sure whether im reading signs right, I have a bestfriend thats a girl back home and shes also pretty much like this, wouldn't want to ruin a possible friendship.
8 profit?


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Old 04-25-2007, 03:42 AM breed is offline  
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You're reading signs fine. Ask her to a movie. And as always:

DO NOT OVERTHINK IT
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Stop fucking thinking of your ex as your "(girl)friend". That's the stupidest ever.

You seem like an emotional tampon. Just ask her out.
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Stop fucking thinking of your ex as your "(girl)friend". That's the stupidest ever.

You seem like an emotional tampon. Just ask her out.

shes not my ex, i never even went out with this girl nor did I have the intentions, shes just a really good friend. emotional tampon? alright big man, im just looking for advice thanks though
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shes not my ex, i never even went out with this girl nor did I have the intentions, shes just a really good friend. emotional tampon? alright big man, im just looking for advice thanks though
So ask either one out...

I still say you're an emotional tampon.
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So ask either one out...

I still say you're an emotional tampon.

He's not an emotional tampon.

Everything looks like a go man. Even when you messed up by complimenting her, her saying, "aww your complimenting me" was just her way of communicating that she appreciated it rather than dismissing it. I just hope that didn't change her view of whose pursuing who, because up until that point, whether you realize or not, she was the one that was pursuing you (and you really made that point by talking about the other good looking girl). That actually shows she gets complimented alot, so I'd be inclined to believe she really is pretty good looking.
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Ask her out before the friendzone... act now.
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He's not an emotional tampon.
Thank you gwvg, oh great one.
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Thank you gwvg, oh great one.

man calm down, what makes your opinion better than his. anyways ill fill you guys in later.

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Seems like you have a really good chance. Id ask her out, be causal bout it tho. Keep letting her pursue you and dont ever give her another compliment like that again until your married.
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You need a girls advice. I didn't know guys had this problem. I would ask her out. Just to the movies. But keep the flirting up so you don't go to the friend stage. Stop comparing her to the girl back home. And don't mention to her again that you think someone else looks good unless you want to be in the friend stage.
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I'm confused, she asked if you had a boyfriend... did she think you were gay?
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She sounds pretty into you. Signs of interest women give tend to be much less complex than guys think they are. Take a step back, review, and ask yourself what you would suggest if you were making the suggestion that you liked you...
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What the fuck is an emotional tampon?
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