Bad kisser becomes a good kisser? Possible?

[krillbee]

1. Do any of you think its possible for a bad kisser to become a good kisser?
Like are people born as good kissers or bad kissers, or is it something that can be learned?

2. And if so how would that be taught, considering good kissers dont want to be stuck kissing bad ones?

3. Also, is there even such a thing as a bad kisser, or is it more based on personal preference? For example, some people like a little toungue and other people dont.

4. And if you do think there is such a thing as a bad kisser, what are some examples?

The reason for this thread is because I've been told by a couple women lately that I'm not very good at kissing. I've only kissed 3 women in my life though, and they were all in the last 3 weeks, haha

[ThreeEleven]

You can always teach somebody to kiss the way you want them to. They'll be glad to do it.

[krillbee]

Originally Posted by ThreeEleven

You can always teach somebody to kiss the way you want them to. They'll be glad to do it.

the women i meet say they dont wanna be teachers they just want me to know how to do it. before i had my first kiss, one girl said she'd kiss me, but she didnt want to be my first.

[ThreeEleven]

Don't tell them you suck. Just have confidence.

Don't swallow their entire head.
Don't drool all over in their mouth.
Be a little bit gentle, she'll let you know if she wants more.
Nibble a little bit on the lips but don't bite.

I really don't know what to tell you. It should just come natural.

[DivineStorm]

Originally Posted by ThreeEleven

It should just come natural.

[krillbee]

Originally Posted by ThreeEleven

It should just come natural.

i guess for me it doesnt cuz 2 girls told me im bad at it

i must come on too strong and use too much tounge. i like to get into it.

[Darkoblivion]

Originally Posted by krillbee

i guess for me it doesnt cuz 2 girls told me im bad at it

i must come on too strong and use too much tounge. i like to get into it.

I hate when I first kiss a girl and she tries to fill my entire mouth with her tongue. Go easy, make her lips feel good first.

[krillbee]

Originally Posted by Darkoblivion

I hate when I first kiss a girl and she tries to fill my entire mouth with her tongue. Go easy, make her lips feel good first.

i dont use my whole tounge, just the first part of it. but maybe thats too much

[ThreeEleven]

Originally Posted by krillbee

i dont use my whole tounge, just the first part of it. but maybe thats too much

Try not using any tongue at first. Once they show it to you then go with it. Just mimic what they do. See where that gets you.

[Juturna]

A kiss is not as simple as many people think, but when people stop thinking, a kiss becomes simple. As others have said, it should come naturally. When you scratch yourself, it's to feel good. It should be the same with kissing--not a thinkfest--but a time to just do what's natural.

[Juturna]

Originally Posted by krillbee

1. Do any of you think its possible for a bad kisser to become a good kisser?
Like are people born as good kissers or bad kissers, or is it something that can be learned?

2. And if so how would that be taught, considering good kissers dont want to be stuck kissing bad ones?

3. Also, is there even such a thing as a bad kisser, or is it more based on personal preference? For example, some people like a little toungue and other people dont.

4. And if you do think there is such a thing as a bad kisser, what are some examples?

The reason for this thread is because I've been told by a couple women lately that I'm not very good at kissing. I've only kissed 3 women in my life though, and they were all in the last 3 weeks, haha

1. Whether you think you can or can't do something, you're right. Yes, you can change.
2. Deep thought on the "theory" of kissing can lead to developing a good base of knowledge, but the follow through necessary is experience. Think of it like writing--you'll soon develop your own personal flair.
3. There is such thing, but it is subject to opinion. If they find your kissing uncomfortable, then you're a bad kisser.
4. Bad kissers in my experience: Overly stoic ones, the innocent whatever girl who doesn't do shit back. The ones who keep the same pace when making out, the ones who just lie there and do it without passion.

[mainbrotha]

This sounds kind of lame, but lay off when you start kissing her and feel the way she's doing it, let hers lead the way. That way you can kind of get the feel of how she kisses. then you can start to improvise from there. if you're making out, you have to use your hands, too. gotta find the right places to rub and such.

[Juturna]

Originally Posted by mainbrotha

This sounds kind of lame, but lay off when you start kissing her and feel the way she's doing it, let hers lead the way. That way you can kind of get the feel of how she kisses. then you can start to improvise from there. if you're making out, you have to use your hands, too. gotta find the right places to rub and such.

Yeah I forgot to mention this. It's like +100 points with the chin hold, +200 with the waist grip, etc.

[Coqui]

Originally Posted by krillbee

the women i meet say they dont wanna be teachers they just want me to know how to do it. before i had my first kiss, one girl said she'd kiss me, but she didnt want to be my first.

Once you meet women who's age mentality is above 21, you won't have that problem anymore.

[theNoid]

Originally Posted by Juturna

Yeah I forgot to mention this. It's like +100 points with the chin hold, +200 with the waist grip, etc.

+1,000,000 for the pin them down, sit on them and hold their hands down above their head hold.