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Golfe
 
My new boyfriend <3


He is a FTM (female to male) transexual. He was born with a vagina and tits and raised as a girl but, transitioned to male over the last ten years or so. He has had surgery on his chest and does not plan to have any more. He completely passes as a man. He likes people of any sex as far as I know.

I use the male pronouns for him because:
1. He is a man regardless of genitals.
2. We all have the right to choose how we are identified.
3. It is rude to call someone something that they do not want to be called.

Now about myself, since a few people seem to be confused about that too.
I am a genderqueer, pansexual male.

Genderqueer means that I don't really fit into any one of the two predefined gender roles that are accepted by most people within the culture that surrounds me. Personally, I don't believe that genders or sexes are a binary system since there are so many variations, many of which don't fit onto the single axis provided by an exclusively male/female gender system.

Pansexual is what a lot of people call bisexual. I don't have a sexual attration to only one sex or gender. I like who ever I like regardless of their gender. The reason I aviod the term 'bisexual' is that it implies that there are only two sexes or that I only like two sexes, neither of which is true for me.

Now you might wonder why I call myself a male if I am genderqueer and don't fit into the male/female gender system. I say male because that is the sex that I was born with and the way I present myself to the world. I don't really have a word to describe how I feel so it is easier to explain my gender as male instead of writing a small book about it everytime I'm asked. Plus, most forms don't have a space for genderqueer, just male or female. I sometimes tell people that I am genderqueer but, that leads to more questions than is wanted sometimes so I let them make what ever assumptions they want until it becomes important for them to know differently.

I love him so much and sex is amazing. I just want everyone to know how happy we are.

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Holy. Fucking. Christ. She sounds hot.

Edit 1: Or he i dont know.
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so when he finally gets a dick, will you be the pitcher or the catcher?
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so when he finally gets a dick, will you be the pitcher or the catcher?
We'll switch off.
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were you raped as a child? is that why your so weird?
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We'll switch off.

is 'switch off' some queer ass-lingo for pozzing a neg hole?
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I don't even know what that means
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Omnisexual sounds better.
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