Sexual Performance Anxiety(v.blogmay)

[LAZERGUNPEWPEW]

Cliffs at bottom.
Alright. This thread will probably get GM'd just because the content is probably something alot of Genmay would love to laugh at. But this is a serious demon of mine. I can't explain why, I don't see other guys worrying about it as much so I don't know what to think. This is a serious thread, as rediculous as it may sound. I don't even know why it bothers me this much, but I'm not joking. I know I probably sound fucking childish and foolish.

Sex to alot of people is a big deal, its everywhere. Books about being better at it, miracle drugs said to enhance it. Its a huge market and a huge thing. And thats why I feel so small about it. O'm in my 20s, and I have my V-card. I feel good about my situation in life. I feel I know who I am at this point,and I've come to accept who I am. Except for one, little itty bitty thing.

I've changed myself over the last years for the better, and I've been getting alot more attention from girls. I've met a girl I really like, we've been friends for a while, shes been asking me out for drinks as a "date" rather than just hangouts. We've also had the sex talk, about her, her ex etc. She knows I have my V-card and I'm not so worried about that. I'm just not sure how I size up.

(stuff most people won't want to read about (measurements =X))
I'm not going to lie, I'm on the smallish side which is why I'm concerned. I want sex with someone I like to be great. I want to be able to offer her a great experience, not just be the average joe.We all do right?. Now there's always seemed to be this thing about bigger is better etc etc, everyones 9" plus.

Now I only measure in at 5" and it has really been bringing me down. I'm afraid to have sex with anyone because I feel like its going to be like digging a hole to china with a plastic shovel. My obsession with my shortside gets me depressed constantly, it effects how I work and it effects my happiness. I've even had nightmares about being inexplicably terrible in bed and somehow having everyone I know find out.

I just feel like I'm going to be completely inadequate. Me and this girl got talking size after I cracked the stereotypical "I'm black from the waist down" joke and she mentioned that bigger isn't always better. For her the perfect match seemed to be 6".

I'm just really concerned that I'm going to constantly fall short with any woman. I feel like I won't be able to please any woman in that way and its seriously depressing. I don't want to have sex because I don't want to have face the fact that I may be completely terrible at it because of something I can't even control. Is this fear completely foolish? I never hear other guys on genmay or anywhere fret about their size, they just seem to get the job done. I know it could be worse, but I still feel like I'm going to be constantly inadequate.

I know those online pills don't really work, and I don't want any surgery. Am I worrying to much? Any girls that surf here have a man whos on the shortish side and could still be pleased? I know this probably sounds insanely foolish and like I'm 12, but I can't explain how much this has been bothering me. I have no self confidence once the situation with any girl turns sexual.

Am I doomed to never being able to please a girl with what I was given? Anyone here measure up the same as me and can still get their girlfriends drooling on the pillow? I'm just afraid I'll be dooming someone I really like, and even future love interests to a relationship filled with boring unsatisfying sex

CLIFFS:
1) Worried about my penis size. Effecting happiness, confidence and love life. Afraid of relationships because of it.
2) Only 5" long, afraid I can't get the job done properly; dooming myself and my love itnerests to a boring unfulfilling sex life.
3) Anyone out there measure up the same, or been with someone who measures that size who could still get the job done and have em begging for more?

[namean]

dude stop fucking worrying about it?

how many people actually have 9" dicks?

5" is normal size.

vaginas are only so deep like under 5" i think.

[BlisterDick]

yeah man, don't worry about it, just go out and get laid. use your tongue too... girls love it when you get them off with your tongue.

[zëro]

Wow dude, you lied about your size and still she said bigger isn't always better. Sounds like you're dating a reasonable girl who isn't shallow (figuratively). You shouldn't have anything to worry about!

[whatisit]

Smallest Penis on Howard Stern

Just watch this and be thankful.

[BlisterDick]

Originally Posted by whatisit

Smallest Penis on Howard Stern

Just watch this and be thankful.

LOL, I was thinking the same thing while reading the original post.

[~~~~~]

LOL @ 9" dicks

if you continue to have this attitude, you won't perform well, that's for sure. and it will have nothing to do with being 5". it will be because of all this unnecessary worrying about pleasing your woman. stop letting yourself be brainwashed. 5 inches is enough to please a woman.

[Captain]

Mine is 6", so what? Come on, you could have a 9" penis and still fail at sex if you're worrying more about its size and not having fun.

<---- virgin

[DoomzDayz]

she's not going to take out a ruler and measure. as long as you are good she will not notice. and if she knows you have a v-card she wont be dissapointed, she'll probably want to teach you.

[Lantec]

Meh... depends how you use it..

a blade is only as good as the wielder

[Phil Taylor]

The G-spot in less than 2" in anyway...

[Coqui]

I think the average is just barely over yours in the first place (I think it's 5.5")

I wouldn't worry about your size. And if you're that worried still, work on being the best cunning linguist you can be.

[matt00926]

Originally Posted by Coqui

I think the average is just barely over yours in the first place (I think it's 5.5")

I wouldn't worry about your size. And if you're that worried still, work on being the best cunning linguist you can be.

The average is ~6.16 inches

The most comprehensive and reliable study was undertaken by the Alfred C. Kinsey Institute for Sex. This is perhaps the most respected organization for conducting research and studies of this magnitude. Their results are published in scientific journals and believed to be accurate and truthful by all medical professionals. This study consisted of 10,000 men of all races and color showed the average penis size to be between 6-6.5 inches.

http://www.squidoo.com/average-penis-size/



To the OP: It doesn't matter if you are 5 inches. This girl seems into you and I doubt she is going to get out the ruler. It doesn't take that many inches to please a girl.

[LAZERGUNPEWPEW]

haha. Thanks. I kinda figured I was worrying too much, must just be brainwashed by all the media and shit like that.

I definitely wasn't worried about being 8+ haha, thats just wasted space. (I know tha tmuch, sorry if I was implied I was hoping to be some 9" man o steel. That wasn't it at all :P)/

Thanks for the reassurance. I feel much better about my situation now that some smoke has cleared.

[Singao]

As everyone said the chick isn't gonna pull out a ruler and your 5 is enouch to get the job done. Most chicks will probably think its bigger than 5 anyway



Just get some good foreplay going and don't worry about it. Leading up to sex is fun and can set the tone for the rest of your adventure that night.