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DaturaX
 
Girl warned me not to fall for her.

Well, I got to know this girl at a club last weekend. As usual, I went up and talk to her and got her number.

After a few calls, I found out that she has a boyfriend and they've been seeing each other for a year. When I asked her how she and her boyfriend were doing, she said. We're doing ok. This answer was not what I was expecting. Most girls will say Great! We love each other very much. but this is not the case.

We exchange a few SMS and she joked to me warning me not to fall for her. What is she hitting at? Telling me to back off?

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Old 09-11-2002, 10:03 PM DaturaX is offline  
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That she wants you to chase after her so her current boyfriend figures out that he has to work a little harder. Just never talk to her again.
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That she wants you to chase after her so her current boyfriend figures out that he has to work a little harder. Just never talk to her again.
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Old 09-11-2002, 10:08 PM beavens is offline  
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She likes the idea of someone chasing her. Makes her feel good about herself. Thats it. She just wants you to drool over her a little bit and then she will cut you off.

PS: We need some more info about the conversation you had to make a decision here. If it truly was just small talk and then she warned you - thats her way of saying im taken so fuck off (the nice way).
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Old 09-11-2002, 10:22 PM socketman is offline  
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Oh the small talk before the joke.

She was asking me about a club and how its like. The prices and music. Stuff like that. She said that maybe she's going this weekend. I told her I'm going there this weekend(actually I'm not), and she changed her mind about going there this weekend. I joked to her about how I'm like a monster and I scare her off.

She said no, just that she was afraid that if I see her, I might fall for her.

BTW, i havent ask her out for a date yet. Her bf is in the military and she sees him only once a week.
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She probably just wants to have fun and doesn't want to get into a relationship, but fears you might fall in love with her and she'll have to break your heart, so she wants to avoid you.
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its remotely possible she just wants to have sex and thats all. How old are all the parties here?
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i would agree with most everyone here. she is probably bored, misses her bf, wants someone to hang out with, wants someone to drool over her (to make her feel good about herself), but loves her bf and doesn't want to get anyone(including herself) in trouble. if you really want you could hang out with her and kill time, and know that it will never be. just be VERY careful.

edit: just my thoughts. hmm, i didn't think that i rambled on that much at the end.
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BTW, i havent ask her out for a date yet. Her bf is in the military and she sees him only once a week.
As well you shouldn't. She's already made it clear she has a boyfriend, why try to intrude on that if she said things are going ok? If she said she hates the relationship, then you should wait for her to be single before asking her on a date.

There's too many girls out there to try to steal someones g/f.

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BF who's in military + you trying to steal her = your squashed face



Give it up and go after someone else. After all, if she DID leave the other guy for you, what makes you think she wouldn't do the same thing to you?
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Old 09-12-2002, 09:56 AM Redthorne is offline  
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Just be her friend for a while. If you ask her out she will get rid of you. Sounds like she's using as astandby incase go south in her current relationship.
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Just be her friend for a while. If you ask her out she will get rid of you. Sounds like she's using as astandby incase go south in her current relationship.
Hang around and pick up on her friends.
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if she only sees him once a week, she's just being the attention whore that women are. don't fall for her.
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