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Blow Jobs and TMJ

Do any girls in here (or the guys hook up with girls) have TMJ? I have TMJ and it makes my jaw click/pop and it hurts if I leave my mouth open for more than a few minutes (as when giving head) and chewing gum kills. I used to be able to give head forever and never be bothered by my jaw but in the last year or so it got really bad and I can only give about 5-10 minutes of head (if that) before I have to stop. My most recent ex was very understanding about it and didn't want me to hurt myself but it also developed over the course of our relationship so he saw the progression. I just don't know how to explain it to any guy I'm with in the future.

Would you be bothered by a girl telling you she physically can't give you head without it being painful to her?
Old 02-21-2007, 01:22 PM PrettyInPink is offline  
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Most women give shitty head anyway, so don't worry about it.


Serious answer, my exwife had that issue. She mostly used her hand and just had her lips on it to make me think I was getting a blowjob. It was ok though, since the real joy of getting a blowjob is knowing the girl you like likes you enough to put your dick in her mouth. It doesn't really hurt my feelings if she can't put it all the way in.

So yeah, don't say you can't do it. Just do it in a way that works for you. If he doesn't appreciate it and suck your clit to multiple orgasms, then dump him.


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Do any girls in here (or the guys hook up with girls) have TMJ? I have TMJ and it makes my jaw click/pop and it hurts if I leave my mouth open for more than a few minutes (as when giving head) and chewing gum kills. I used to be able to give head forever and never be bothered by my jaw but in the last year or so it got really bad and I can only give about 5-10 minutes of head (if that) before I have to stop. My most recent ex was very understanding about it and didn't want me to hurt myself but it also developed over the course of our relationship so he saw the progression. I just don't know how to explain it to any guy I'm with in the future.

Would you be bothered by a girl telling you she physically can't give you head without it being painful to her?
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I used to date a girl in high school and college off and on who had the same problem as time went on. We just found other ways for foreplay, and it was never a big deal.

I have a hard time thinking that a guy would get pissed off about it. But ymmv.
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I have TMJ and I love giving blowjobs but my jaw gets so bad that I can only do it every now and then.

Chewing gum, talking, eating, laying the side of my face on a pillow, yawning, etc kills my jaw, so having a penis in there for awhile is terrible.

I hate that I can't give my boyfriend that pleasure as much as I'd like to, but he's pretty understanding about it. I guess he has to be, eh?
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I have TMJ and I love giving blowjobs but my jaw gets so bad that I can only do it every now and then.

Chewing gum, talking, eating, laying the side of my face on a pillow, yawning, etc kills my jaw, so having a penis in there for awhile is terrible.

I hate that I can't give my boyfriend that pleasure as much as I'd like to, but he's pretty understanding about it. I guess he has to be, eh?

My wife has the same problem. She try's and I appreciate that but honestly I'm always left wanting.
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My wife has the same problem. She try's and I appreciate that but honestly I'm always left wanting.

I hate to be crude in saying this, but honestly shouldn't you just be happy that she does try? I mean after all, she could not even be willing to go down on you at all, TMJ or not. I dunno, I guess the way I see it is just like I stated in my previous post with the girl that I was involved with years ago. I was happy that she would try it, and when it bothered her she stopped and we did something else.

Don't take a woman who is willing to put your member in her mouth for granted!
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I hate to be crude in saying this, but honestly shouldn't you just be happy that she does try? I mean after all, she could not even be willing to go down on you at all, TMJ or not. I dunno, I guess the way I see it is just like I stated in my previous post with the girl that I was involved with years ago. I was happy that she would try it, and when it bothered her she stopped and we did something else.

Don't take a woman who is willing to put your member in her mouth for granted!

Your right. Im sorry.
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I don't give any BJ's but sometimes when I eat my jaw clicks over and over...

Is it TMJ?!
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Most guys will think you're just trying to avoid giving head.

Few will understand.
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If a guy doesn't like the fact that you don't want to cause yourself physical pain for the sake of giving him head, he's not worth your time.
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Most guys will think you're just trying to avoid giving head.

Few will understand.

Thats my point. I enjoy giving head and been told I give really good head but it has gotten so painful lately I can't give it anymore. I just don't want a guy to think I'm avoiding it.
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takes some painkillers and bob away.

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what happens if you just leave your mouth open for a few minutes? No motion or sucking? Is it painful?
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Most women give shitty head anyway, so don't worry about it.

QFTMFT

im tired of women that say "oh i give the best head ever" and then you just about fall asleep while shes going down on you, then you get pissed off and she gets upset that you tend to get more involved then shes used to ... ie gagging her or thoart fucking.

lol
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Yeah my fiancees mouth will get to the point where it will "lock" or "click". Not every time but occasionally. Its all good though.
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